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Tuesday, August 30, 2011

The ART of Making Friends

I can tell she is an artist by the way she looks at the painting.  Close at first, then real close in order to observe the brush strokes. Finally stepping back to admire it from afar--taking it in as a whole.

Her mouth stands stoically on her face-no smiles, no frowns-but her eyes reveal all.  Speaking with such detail her every thought on the art before her.

Its Thursday afternoon; we are alone in the gallery. My eyes roam back and forth from the paintings to this intriguing character.  In the same way I do, she kneels in front of the art; eyes scanning every detail, analyzing every stroke, noting every subtle color change.  The camera dangling from her shoulder, now rests inches from the ground.  Quality and wear speak of her photographic passion.  Moving from one painting to the next, our eyes meet.  Neither takes the effort to hide it or expand on it.  Back to the art.

A willow near the water catches my gaze.  The serene painting sweeps me up.  For ten, maybe fifteen, minutes my mind is home once again; relaxing on the shore of the creek.  I can hear the water gently moving against the stubborn rock; singing its song on its quest for freedom.  The wind chimes in with its harmony echoing through the thin willow branches.  Taking off my shoes, I slowly dip my feet into the cold, but inviting water.  So refreshing, so pure, so perfect.  As I snap back into reality--from the country back to the city.  I miss home, but I do not dwell on it.

As I enter the next exhibit, she is already there.  The tone is completely different.  Interactive digital art.  The graphics on the wall dance with our every move and sound.  Finally, a smile breaks across her face like it had been waiting for its chance to shine.  Still no words, but we have connected.  Smiles turn to laughs as we move through the rest of the exhibit.

Now walking next to each other, we head upstairs for the main gallery.  The silence is broken as she asks, "American?"  I nod and ask "Korean?"  She confirms with a smile.

Nearly two more hours we spend observing, analyzing, and discussing art.  Quickly reaching a point where silence is not awkward somehow allows for a deeper connection and appreciation for each other and the art.  Words are few, but meaningful when spoken.  We separate at times, but always come back.

As we reach the end, we talk for a bit in the lobby.  Telling brief summaries of our lives and interests.  She asks, "By the way, what is your name?"  We both laugh at the exclusion of such basic information.  She tells me her name in Korean, but I only remember her English name, Sarah.  Her two friends are waiting on her so we bid each other farewell, without the exchange of phone numbers or email addresses, knowing we will never see each other again.

Another soon-to-be forgotten friend.  Another beautiful experience.



(2009)

Snowy Luck in China

Arriving in China to a snow-filled greeting. It is lucky, they say. The streets of Dalian alive with excitement. The university still quiet, awaiting the pending rush that Monday morning will bring. This is my home now.

Crazy Taxis, Crowded Buses, Getting Lost.
Pork Dumplings, Chocolate Filled Crackers, Pineapple on a Stick.
Eating Squid, Jelly Fish, And What is That???
Smiling Faces, Giggly Girls, New Friends.
Pi Jiu (Beer), Pu Tao Jiu (Wine), Bai Jiu (Don’t Even Ask)
Yoga, Tai Qi, and Kung Fu!!!
Fun, Excitement…Adventure.

Caught up in the excitement of living in a new, big city. Purpose has fled. Reality ungraspable. But life does not wait. Classes begin tomorrow.

Back to the world of academia. Back to the life of text books, laptops, and coffee. Lectures, pop quizzes, and study guides. There’s something refreshing about being in the business of knowledge--something comforting about this fortress of theories and ideas. Its Safe. Pure. The university, though surrounded, still maintains a blessed disconnect from the real world, fighting off the impending evils of practicality and production.

Met my students today. Learning will ensue. For me. For them.
Cultural and language barriers loom ahead of me. Thought I might feel like a foreigner searching for a home. But I feel like I belong. People accept me. Not as one of them, but as one that belongs here. Smiles everywhere.

I miss my family. My friends. My baby’s sweet kiss. Glad I’m here. Just want to share the experience with those I love. Explore together. Learn together. Laugh together.

Visited an orphanage. Lost my heart. The kids stole it. They can have it. Ge Ge, they call me: big brother. See my babies again soon!

Its lucky, they say.
Must be true. Blessed Snow!

(2009)

Hip Hop and Country

As day is to night,
Not whole without the other--
Two people in love.
Day and Night. Dark and Light. Different, but oddly the same. In the symmetry of a well-written haiku. A Yin to its Yang. Opposite, but fulfilling, completing. HER HAND IN MINE. It fits. SHE FITS. City Girl and Country Boy.

Sensual and Sweet. Sexy and Smart. Almond eyes saying exactly what I want to hear. Freckled face like a starry night. Scrunched-up nose to break the gaze. Rewarded with a smile and a gentle squeeze. A whispered sweet nothing--feels like something…special. Gentle kiss on the neck. A moment, just another moment. Another amazing moment. Hot chocolate in hand. No need for conversation.

Captivated, Intrigued, and Aroused. Heart and Mind concur. Falling, definitely falling. Head over heels. Sounds crazy, but feels right. Could this be love?

Cruel fate awaits along with the plane. Finally found, now must separate. Chinese Adventure. Bittersweet Goodbye.

Given just a taste,
A feeling so sweet and pure.
Left thirsting for more.

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(2009)