What Makes a Cowboy

It's a crazy world we live in.  I guess it has always been crazy, but I wasn't around for any other time than the current.  Through my life (high school-college-real world), one thing that has really stood out to me is that so many people live unaccountable lives.  Thinking about it, I think one of the most important things about being a good man (or woman) is knowing responsibility, being accountable for your actions. Don't blame things on others; life is what we make it; the buck stops here; real men take responsibility.

Perhaps that is one of the reasons why SW Missouri is so Republican on a lot of issues (and don't forget the conservative church).  There is an accountability that is assumed...that is expected.  You get what you work for; you don't deserve anything more--or less. Welfare and universal health care will have a hard time getting support around here.  I understand that we should lend a hand to those that are down, but some people need to get a work ethic and a job--and get off the system. 

I am getting a little off track from where I meant to be headed so I will try to redirect a little.  The major influence in becoming a man, like most other men, is my dad.  Through his actions (more than words), he has taught me how to be a man.  He works hard (at the factory and out with the cattle) and takes care of his family. Taking care of my family and community is what I want to be able to do with my life.  I understand that there are going to be struggles that will go along with that, but bring it on.  My dad taught me to be a strong man so I can take it.

For the song below, I was inspired to write it by my dad.  Who not only showed me what it takes to be a man, but a cowboy.  It's not important what you wear--whats important is how you live.

What Makes a Cowboy

I’ve heard it said—that the cowboy way is dead--Like its something that’s been lost in the past
I tell them friend—they’ll be here ‘til the end--So don’t go ‘round talking like that
They’ll always remain—cause some things just don’t change--And thank God that they’re still about
Cause from the experiences I’ve had—when things go bad--It’s the cowboys that are gonna help you out

It ain’t the boots or the hat—or nothing like that
That makes a cowboy a cowboy, no sir
It ain’t the horse or the saddle—that really does matter
And it sure ain’t the buckle and spurs
With strong working hands—a strong independent man
He’s someone who’ll never turn his back
Oh, when troubles surround us—there’s still cowboys around us
But sometimes they don’t wear the hat

It ain’t the campfire jokes—or the Marlboro smokes--That make up a cowboy, my friend
Cause a cowboy’s a cowboy—will always be a cowboy--A cowboy will be there ‘til the end
When troubles abound—and everyone is backing down--The cowboy, he’ll stand and fight
Putting his life on the line—each and every time--To defend what he knows is right

Cowboy’s an attitude, a simple way of life--Ain’t something you wear, its something inside

Oh when troubles surround us--Thank God, there’s still cowboys around us
Though sometimes they don’t wear the hat

(Ironically, we both have cowboy hats on in this photo)

I know I put the link on before, but this should take you to my music page if you want to listen:

http://www.myspace.com/freddiesoul/music